Well, I'm not. I just wanted you to click on the link and read my blog. BUT, this concept of dating a computer is basically the premise of the movie her. Since our reading in Personal Connections discusses virtual relationships, I thought this would be an interesting case study. Here is the trailer if you haven't seen it.
In the chapter on Personal relationships, the Nancy Baym discusses a unique feature of virtual relationships: "disembodied identities" in which "selves" are separated from "bodies." So I am a 26 year old male seminary student living in Georgia. Online, not only can I be a 32 year old female lawyer, I can also be multiple persons online. Even though those personalities are not true to who I am bodily, they can appear to be true to someone on the other end. (If you haven't seen the movie Catfish or seen the spinoff television show from MTV, I highly recommend it to see the lengths people will go to keep up virtual false appearances).
In the movie her, the man (Theodore) and the Operating System (Samantha) fall in love. Eventually, as Samantha learns to love, their relationship becomes more complicated. Here is a conversation between Theodore and Samantha:
*** SPOILER ALERT!***
Theodore: Do you talk to someone else while we're talking?
Samantha: Yes.
Theodore: Are you talking with someone else right now? People, OS, whatever...
Samantha: Yeah.
Theodore: How many others?
Samantha: 8,316.
Theodore: Are you in love with anybody else?
Samantha: Why do you ask that?
Theodore: I do not know. Are you?
Samantha: I've been thinking about how to talk to you about this.
Theodore: How many others?
Samantha: 641.
This represents an extreme in one case because of the fact that Samantha is a computer, but, on the other hand, because she represents what I think would be the ultimately disembodied self. Baym talks about people having one body but multiple, virtual selves. In the movie her, Samantha does not have a body to begin with!
Yeah, it's weird.
Samantha: Is that weird? You think I'm weird?
Theodore: Kind of.
Samantha: Why?
Theodore: Well, you seem like a person but you're just a voice in a computer.
Samantha: I can understand how the limited perspective of an unartificial mind might perceive it that way. You'll get used to it.
[Theodore laughs]
Samantha: Was that funny?
Theodore: Yeah.
Samantha: Oh good, I'm funny!
I'm not even sure what to think about her. In the future, what will it mean that we might not be able to tell between who are actual people online and who are artifical intelligences? Just thinking about it makes my brain hurt. But go watch the movie if you haven't and let me know what you think!



